David B. Sarnoff, Esq., ACC
Certified Executive Coach & Consultant
“I find my work rewarding and impactful. I lead with care and empathy but am no less direct when I believe it will benefit my client.”
Meet David Sarnoff
David B. Sarnoff, Esq., ACC is an ICF Certified Executive Coach, leadership trainer, and co-author of Beyond the Courtroom (PLI Press, with Natalie Loeb). Drawing on an unusually diverse career as a practicing attorney, executive search consultant, business owner, and Board of Education president, David brings a rare combination of real-world experience and coaching expertise to the leaders and organizations he serves.
David works with attorneys, corporate executives, directors, managers, and individual contributors to elevate professional performance, emotional intelligence, leadership potential, and team effectiveness. He specializes in helping high potentials and high performers develop sharper self-awareness, stronger soft skills, and a deeper understanding of how their words and actions shape those around them.
Empathy, inclusion, and allyship are central threads throughout his work. He is also a frequent speaker and workshop facilitator at conferences and webinars on topics including emotional intelligence, giving and receiving feedback, time management, boundary-setting, generational dynamics, mentorship, and allyship. David's commitment to equity and inclusion extends beyond the coaching room.
In September 2020, he was appointed to the Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Committee of the New York City Bar Association, and in September 2022, he was elevated to Co-Chair for a two-year term. He is also an Adjunct Instructor at iCoach Global (formerly iCoach New York), a professional coaching program affiliated with the Zicklin School of Business at Baruch College. He is also an alumnus of the iCoach program. Beyond his coaching career, David served on the Fort Lee Board of Education for several years, including three consecutive terms as Board President.
In 2015, he was honored with the Archie Hay Award for Distinguished Service and Leadership from the Bergen County School Boards Association, and he served on the statewide NJSBA Mental Health Task Force.
MEMBERSHIPS, ASSOCIATIONS, + CERTIFICATIONS
Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Committee, New York City Bar Association
Adjunct Faculty, iCoach, Professional Coaching Certificate Program, 2022
Certified in EQ-i 2.0 and EQ-I 360 Emotional Intelligence Assessment
Certified Everything DiSC® Facilitator
Smart Collaborations Accelerator Assessment – Accredited Accelerator Coach
Trained in the Leadership Practices Inventory Assessment (“LPI”) and LPI 360
Honors + Awards
Archie Hay Award, Bergen County School Boards Association, recognized for distinguish service and leadership.
Appointed to the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Committee of the New York City Bar Association.
Education
BA, Social Sciences, cum laude, Hofstra University, 1986-1990
JD, Dean’s List, Rutgers Law School;, 1991-1994
Professional Coaching Certificate, iCoach New York, Zicklin School of Business, Baruch College, 2018
Areas of Expertise
Emotional Intelligence
Allyship
Workplace Culture
Conflict Management
Mentorship
Giving and Receiving Feedback
Generational Challenges and Solutions
PRESENTATIONS + PUBLICATIONS
Association of Legal Administrators 2023 National Conference - ‘No’ Is a Complete Sentence — How Setting Boundaries Promotes Better Relationships
Association of Legal Administrators 2023 National Conference - Performative vs. Authentic Allyship
NALP Conference 2022, How Remote Work Amplified Generational Divide
Association of Legal Administrators 2022 National Conference, Managing for Impact Facilitator
New York City Bar Association, Giving Feedback with Equity 2022
Practising Law Institute, One Hour Briefing, Building a Workplace Culture That Attracts, Engages and Retains Talent, March 2022
Practising Law Institute, One Hour Briefing, Active Listening for Lawyers and Paralegals – A Critical Skill for High Performance, August 2021
Practising Law Institute, One Hour Briefing, Mentoring Attorneys in the 21st Century, May 2021
Monthly executive coaching column in the Practising Law Institute’s Chronicle: Coach’s Counsel
Advocating for Your Attorneys’ Mental Health, May 2022
When Met with Opposition, Model the Way, April 2022
If You’re Happy and You Know It, Let Them Know, March 2022
Is a Lack of Equitable Feedback Hindering Your Path to an Inclusive Workplace?, February 2022
Partners, How Patient Are You?, January 2022
Holding Your Colleagues Accountable for Destructive Behavior, Nov/Dec 2021
Using Communication to Defeat Frustration, October 2021
How Can I Better Manage People and Administrative Tasks?, September 2021
A full archive can be found here.
Power of Proximity, What Law Firm Partners Miss About Being at the Office
Managing Remote Teams During Difficult Times
Who Really Performs Better: The Perfectionist or the High Achiever?
EQ vs. IQ, What Smart Lawyers and Law Firms Need to Know About Emotional Intelligence, published in PLI Current, The Journal of PLI Press, Vol. 4, No.1 2020
Diversity & Inclusion, Are Law Firms Getting It Wrong?
Experience
Coached an IT leader at a large law firm to increase self-awareness and learn how to adapt communication style to get the results needed from direct reports and colleagues.
Coached a Security Executive at a large well-known hospitality center to enhance emotional intelligence leading to game changing impact on the team’s morale. This leader was recognized for enhanced leadership capability.
Coached a law firm Partner focusing on business development. Engagement included cultivating and nurturing relationships. Additionally, the client learned how to design, plan, develop goals and successfully execute the business development plan.
Coached a law firm Partner to strengthen communication skills to better manage and inspire direct reports, enhance leadership skills, refine and execute on a business development plan.
Coached a General Counsel at a non-profit to increase self-awareness and take ownership for interpersonal communication skills so the GC could make intentional decisions to adapt behavior for more favorable relationship building.
Coached an IT leader as the leader transitioned into a global role, focusing on communication skills, raising self-awareness and awareness of non-verbal communication, building relationships, managing up and navigating firm politics.
Coached a Chief Human Resources Officer of a large non-profit to enhance leadership skills and relationship building while adopting a strategic mindset.
Coached a hedge fund executive to increase self-awareness, emotional intelligence skills, conflict resolution and effective communication.
Moderator, of multiple Safe-Space Dialogue Panels on Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Allyship, for Loeb Leadership
Presenter, Giving Effective Feedback Equitably, DEI Committee of the New York City Bar Association
Presenter, Leading in Adverse Times: The Leadership Challenge, NALP Professional Development Institute Conference
Keynote Speaker, Change Management and Preparing for the Post-COVID Work Environment, Association of Legal Administrators, DC Chapter, Human Resources Retreat
Presenter, Active Listening is a Critical Skill for Attorneys to Practice Law at a High Caliber During Coronavirus and Beyond, Faculty, Practising Law Institute CLE One Hour Briefing
Using EQ as a Tool to Improve Lawyers’ Well-Being and Performance, New York City Bar Association CLE
Generational Challenges Between Law Firm Partners and Associates, PLI – One Hour Briefing
Facilitated a large group Everything DiSC© Assessment workshop at the Lafayette College Leadership Institute
Co-presented at a Leadership Conference for the Native American Leadership Forum
Q+A With David Sarnoff
Describe major career/life decisions that led you to your current role. How have these experiences shaped the way you engage with clients?
I worked at a law firm for nine years as a paralegal and attorney, and spent 17 years in executive search in the legal profession. That experience uniquely positions me to understand the challenges and opportunities that my clients may face in their positions. It also allows me to be an effective coach who can relate to their circumstances and collaborate on effective strategies for better outcomes.
What are a couple of your biggest successes?
I coached an executive known for being difficult and lacked self-awareness. At the end of a six month engagement, this executive was leading with empathy, raised his self-awareness and cultivated a high trust team.